A long-awaited family gathering for photos, cancelled due to illness. Savings for a holiday rechannelled into necessary repairs because of hurricane or tornado damage. We’re going along nicely with a goal in mind then something happens to change it all. The pandemic was one of those, but the possibilities are many.

encouraging sidewalk signs during pandemic

A couple spends time in hospital with a child who needs medical intervention. Not just one day, but ongoing, and they’re still at it. We can only support them from afar with prayers and encouragement. Complex issues for the teen, ongoing treatment for another small child. I’m sure you can name more.

We’re told “to count our blessings” or “it could be worse.” Long-used worn-out phrases that don’t acknowledge our disappointment and sadness. Perhaps someone will come alongside us and understand those feelings. That much can help even if the circumstances don’t change.

This past Thursday, the rain let up so our group of Toastmasters could go on our planned hike. Many moments during that day I was sure it would be off. And I was feeling it. I wanted to go, even if it was cold.

Blessed with sunshine later in the afternoon, even if it was chilly, we rejoiced in the opportunity to get out of doors and spend time together. We’ve been in Zoom meetings for so long that some newer members had never met others in person. And we had a child with us — my grandson — who was happy to lead us on the path and show us neat lookouts across the pond. He’d been there before. His joy and excitement added to our time together. Added to that, the appearance of a member who had flown in from across country to attend her Masters’ graduation, the day held unexpected surprises. Good ones.

Our hiking group

at a look out place

A bump in the road, followed by a blessing. We never know, so we need to celebrate each chance we get to do something fun, each time we accomplish something small or large, and spend time with friends to share a laugh or a story. I think of that in light of a recent death, a tragedy, when we weren’t ready to hear the news.

I suppose some of our outlook depends on whether we see life as a glass “half empty” or “half full.” Do we see the best in others or the way something turned out? Of course, some events’ sad endings will make us weep. And disappointments may invoke anger. But if we can get through those times, perhaps we can help others through their times of grief and feeling anxious.

Let us hold out our hands to receive the blessings along the way, for there will surely be some. And let us come alongside others who are having not such good days. Acknowledging them can show that someone cares. As in today’s lesson, being open to ways to make things better.

Wishing you health and safety for the days ahead.

Greeting one another

 Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 ESV